When we as therapists see our clients doing things that are hurting themselves or their partner it is difficult not to try to change them. But EFT research tells us trying to change people does not work. So what does work, Truly seeing the good...
It can be very difficult one to work with highly escalated couples and two to move toward each partner and their reactivity. Join Michelle and Dr. Laura Spiller in talking about how to name and work with highly escalated couples in EFT couples therapy. Be...
It can be very tricky, not to mention disheartening when your couple needs or wants to talk about separating in couples therapy. Join Michelle and Dr. Laura Spiller in a discussion around how to approach this difficult topic in EFT couples therapy. Be well, Michelle...
As therapists, it can be difficult to navigate the many different kinds of personalities that come to see us. Join Michelle and Dr. Laura Spiller for a discussion around working with critical withdrawers. Be well, Michelle Puster (she/her) M.Ed., LPC Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist...
Sex Therapy Katy Texas First off, it is totally reasonable to be panicked and hurt by this comment. Also, likely it is less definitive, final and certain then it sounds. Your partner is probably trying to tell you something important when they say they would...
Sex Therapy Katy Texas Often times one partner comes to therapy wanting more sex, frustrated that they are not having enough sex and feeling stonewalled by their partner. They describe feeling angry, hurt, confused and tired. They do not want to give up on their...
Sex Therapy Katy Texas Recently in a talk I gave, a participant asked the question, "How can a couple keep their sex life alive?" You would think I would have an easy, quick answer for this being a sex therapist. After all it is a...
Join Michelle & Laura in their series Working with Affairs in EFT Couples Therapy Today's Topic: Working with Affairs in EFT Stage 1 Michelle Puster (she/her) M.Ed., LPC Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist Supervisor AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Katy Couples and...