Couples can bring a lot of information, stories and examples into each session. This can be overwhelming as a therapist. We have to figure out what is relevant and what is extra information we do not currently need. I have found the EFT cycle as...
As therapists when we see our clients engaging in behaviors that are destructive to themselves and the relationship we might be inclined to zone in on the ineffective behavior in hopes in eradicate it. This would miss an important point in EFT couple’s therapy, seeing...
As therapists we often want to roll up our sleeves and get into the emotions as quickly as possible. We may be wanting that heartfelt moment that we hope will turn things around for our couples. If we go for deep emotions too quickly we...
Why don't couples therapists talk about sex? This is a great question. There are two main reasons. Lack of training in sex therapy & sex is a taboo topic. It is astounding the lack of training in human sexuality, sexual health and sexual relationships that...
Celebrating Pride Month In June we celebrate Pride Month around the world for all of the activists who have fought for equal justice, equal rights and acceptance of LGBTQIA+ individuals, mourn precious lives lost, and acknowledge the continued need for awareness, acceptance, and equal rights....
When we think of sexual response we usually think of the tingly feeling between our legs but sexual response also happens in our brain. “… the central mechanism that governs sexual arousal, which controls how and when you respond to sexually relevant sights, sounds, sensations,...
Have you experienced low or no desire in your sexual relationship? If so, you are not alone. Women of all ages experience low desire in their relationships for various reasons. Low desire might be something that is new for you or you might have been...
This has been a devastatingly stressful year, especially if you are a woman. So much of the extra responsibilities at home are being shouldered by moms and women in general, so you may need extra bits of care to manage your mental and overall health....